add `no-required-prop-with-default` rule to vue2 and vue3 presets

[neferqiqi]

Tell us about your environment

• ESLint version: 8.23.0
• eslint-plugin-vue version: 9.4.0
• Node version: 16.3.0

The problem you want to solve.
Shell we add no-required-prop-with-default rule to vue2 and vue3 presets?

Your take on the correct solution to problem.
Add this rule to vue2 and vue3 presets.

Additional context

[FloEdelmann]

Done in #2640, will be released in v10.