Minor InterpreterPoolExecutor Issues

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Bug report

Bug description:

• __main__ handling isn't quite right
• non-pickleable-but-shareable objects fail
• common code with test.support.interpreters should be shared

This has gh-132775 as a prerequisite.

CPython versions tested on:

CPython main branch

Operating systems tested on:

No response

Linked PRs

• gh-133485: Use _interpreters.call() in InterpreterPoolExecutor #133957