BUG: nan-objects lookup fails in Python3.10

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Due to this change in CPython: python/cpython@a07da09

the following assumption is no longer true:

pandas/pandas/_libs/src/klib/khash_python.h

Lines 183 to 187 in 059c8ba

	// For PyObject_Hash holds:
	// hash(0.0) == 0 == hash(-0.0)
	// hash(X) == 0 if X is a NaN-value
	// so it is OK to use it directly for doubles
	Py_hash_t hash = PyObject_Hash(key);

Here is a failing example:

_____________________ TestIsin.test_different_nan_objects ______________________

self = <pandas.tests.test_algos.TestIsin object at 0x7f9ba1fe7250>

    def test_different_nan_objects(self):
        # GH 22119
        comps = np.array(["nan", np.nan * 1j, float("nan")], dtype=object)
        vals = np.array([float("nan")], dtype=object)
        expected = np.array([False, False, True])
        result = algos.isin(comps, vals)
>       tm.assert_numpy_array_equal(expected, result)

pandas/tests/test_algos.py:1039: 
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left = array([False, False,  True]), right = array([False, False, False])