Improve Node server-side errors for Remix

[AbhiPrasad]

Problem Statement

After testing on Vanguard, we found some less than ideal errors that were happening server-side. Let's see if we can improve the Remix SDK to improve the quality of the errors.

https://sentry.io/organizations/sentry/issues/3430115954/?project=6301746&query=is%3Aunresolved

Solution Brainstorm

TODO.

[AbhiPrasad]

After some investigation it was found that the bad quality Vanguard errors were due to the usage of a custom express server - we weren't instrumenting on that properly. To resolve this, we decided to export wrappers that users can use if they are using a custom express server. This should help improve the situation on vanguard.

Ref: #5524

Closing this issue as there isn't much more actionable tasks we can do, we can open new issues if we see other specific improvements we can make.