False positives when meta contains spread with `prefer-message-ids`, `require-meta-type`, `require-meta-fixable`, `require-meta-schema`

[bmish]

When there's a spread inside the meta object that we can't evaluate, we might want to stop flagging these violations since likely the spread fills these properties in already:

  23:9  error  `meta.messages` must contain at least one violation message                    eslint-plugin/prefer-message-ids
  23:9  error  `meta.type` is required (must be either `problem`, `suggestion`, or `layout`)  eslint-plugin/require-meta-type
  23:9  error  `meta.fixable` must be either `code` or `whitespace` for fixable rules         eslint-plugin/require-meta-fixable
  23:9  error  `meta.schema` has no schema defined but rule has options                       eslint-plugin/require-meta-schema

export default createRule<Options, MessageIds>({
  name: 'object-curly-spacing',
  meta: {
    ...baseRule.meta,
    docs: { /* ... * / }
  }
});

Example: https://github.com/typescript-eslint/typescript-eslint/blob/main/packages/eslint-plugin/src/rules/object-curly-spacing.ts

This issue is not specific to TypeScript.