Update plugin.xml and plugin-specific services to actual IntelliJ API

[Vassiliy-Kudryashov]

Description

There were issues with uploading UnitTestBot plugin 2023.10 to the marketplace:

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1 Error
Your plugin file contains 1 error. To upload your plugin to Marketplace, please fix these errors and try again.

Service preloading is deprecated in the <com.intellij.projectService> element. Consider removing the 'preload' attribute and migrating to listeners, see https://plugins.jetbrains.com/docs/intellij/plugin-listeners.html
7 Warnings
We also recommend that you fix the 7 warnings flagged in your plugin file, as this will drastically improve the quality of your plugin.

Fixing warnings is optional and will not prevent you from uploading your plugin to Marketplace.

Plugin ID specified in plugin.xml should not contain 'intellij'
Configuration file 'withJava.xml' for optional dependency 'com.intellij.modules.java' is invalid: Invalid plugin descriptor 'withJava.xml': Unable to read plugin descriptor
Configuration file 'withKotlin.xml' for optional dependency 'org.jetbrains.kotlin' is invalid: Invalid plugin descriptor 'withKotlin.xml': Unable to read plugin descriptor
Configuration file 'withPython.xml' for optional dependency 'com.intellij.modules.python' is invalid: Invalid plugin descriptor 'withPython.xml': Unable to read plugin descriptor
Configuration file 'withGo.xml' for optional dependency 'org.jetbrains.plugins.go' is invalid: Invalid plugin descriptor 'withGo.xml': Unable to read plugin descriptor
Configuration file 'withAndroid.xml' for optional dependency 'org.jetbrains.android' is invalid: Invalid plugin descriptor 'withAndroid.xml': Unable to read plugin descriptor
Configuration file 'withIdeaMaven.xml' for optional dependency 'org.jetbrains.idea.maven' is invalid: Invalid plugin descriptor 'withIdeaMaven.xml': Unable to read plugin descriptor

Specified error was fixed, we use annotation in code instead of projectService tag.

Self-check list

• I've set the proper labels for my PR (at least, for category and component).
• PR title and description are clear and intelligible.
• I've added enough comments to my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas.
• The functionality I've repaired, changed or added is covered with automated tests.
• Manual tests have been provided optionally.
• The documentation for the functionality I've been working on is up-to-date.

[alisevych]

Smoke test from branch passed:

• Manual testing of Release 2023.10 build#24 #2655