fix(ecs-patterns): add missing redirectHTTP dependency on main listener in ApplicationLoadBalancedFargateService (#34510)

### Issue # (if applicable)

Closes #34235 

### Reason for this change

Fixes an issue with Cloudformation throwing `A listener already exists
on this port for this load balancer` during deployments when switching
from `redirectHTTP: false` to `redirectHTTP: true` on the
`ApplicationLoadBalancedFargateService` construct.


### Description of changes

There are 3 cases to handle:

- For the default listener created by the construct and described in the
reproduction stack in this issue. The bug is that when using the default
listener port
[here](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/2bdc07e45f836a710bc049d43a2462806af1c75d/packages/aws-cdk-lib/aws-ecs-patterns/lib/base/application-load-balanced-service-base.ts#L508),
we don’t wait for it to update to 443 before adding the redirect
listener from 80 -> 443, causing a race condition that sometimes tries
to add 2 listeners on the same port (80). Fixed by adding an explicit
dependency.

- The second case would be a user having the port 80 listener added via
`loadBalancer.addListener` or expliclity via the `props.listenerPort`.
We let the CFN error pass through.

### Describe any new or updated permissions being added

None

### Description of how you validated changes

Added unit tests and updated integ tests. I'm still trying to deploy the
integ tests to my account but the issue is that I need to first have a
route53 domain.

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Author: aemada-aws

packages/@aws-cdk-testing/framework-integ/test/aws-ecs-patterns/test/fargate/integ.alb-fargate-service-https.js.snapshot/aws-ecs-integ-alb-fg-https.template.json

@@ -535,7 +535,8 @@
     },
     "Port": 80,
     "Protocol": "HTTP"
-   }
+   },
+   "DependsOn": ["myServiceLBPublicListenerC78AE8A0","myServiceLBPublicListenerECSGroup17E9BBC1"]
   },
   "myServiceCertificate152F9DDA": {
    "Type": "AWS::CertificateManager::Certificate",

packages/aws-cdk-lib/aws-ecs-patterns/lib/base/application-load-balanced-service-base.ts

@@ -541,6 +541,9 @@ export abstract class ApplicationLoadBalancedServiceBase extends Construct {
           permanent: true,
         }),
       });
+      // Ensure the redirect listener is created after the main listener,
+      // otherwise we run into a race condition that adds 2 listeners on port 80.
+      this.redirectListener.node.addDependency(this.listener);
     }
 
     let domainName = loadBalancer.loadBalancerDnsName;